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March 13, 1991
 

Chelsea Michelle Rowe was born in at 2:00 in the afternoon at St. Vincent's Hospital in Birmingham, AL on March 13, 1991.  The delivery nurse told me, Mrs. Rowe you have a beautiful baby girl, she looks just like you.  We were all thrilled because as Chelsea put it, she was our miracle baby. 

 

Her Dad and I have two beautiful girls who each came to us in very special ways.  After several years of waiting for a child, we were blessed to adopt our daughter, Carrie on December 7, 1983.  Carrie was 3 1/2 months old when she became our daughter.  Seven years later we were given a surprise blessing of Chelsea. 

April 26, 2008
 

At the age of 17 Chelsea was killed when she was given a ride on a motorcycle driven by a friend's boyfriend on April 26, 2008.  Due to lies told by her friend and no help from law enforcement, Chelsea's body was not found until around 2:30 in the afternoon on April 28, 2008.  We were blessed to have many family and friends searching for Chelsea.  Instead of assistance from law enforcement, Chelsea was found by friends who love her.

 

Chelsea was laid to rest at Jefferson Memorial Gardens in Trussville, Alabama in the Garden of the Trinity on May 2, 2008.

 

Chelsea was a very giving person; giving of her time and energy doing many hours of volunteer work.  At the time of her death, Chelsea qualified for the Silver Award in the President's Volunteer Service Awards.  Chelsea always had a listening ear for her friends who had problems and did what she could to help them find a solution.  Once Chelsea had a friend with a problem that she couldn't seem to find an answer for.  She told this person that he needed to talk to me, her mother, because I could make everyone feel better.  He came and sat on my couch and we watched Monsters, Inc. together and talked. 

 

I have so many wonderful memories of Chelsea growing up.  She was a joy to all of us her family. 

April 26, 2011
 
April 26, 2011
 
I have so many wonderful memeories of you Chelsea.  I loved getting out in the middle of the night to go to the store to get snacks.  I loved helping with your beauty pageants.  Doing your hair, getting Byron to do your makeup and all the other things we did to prepare.  Then you would come to me and say "What do you think, Mama?  You had such a wonderful attitude about pageants.  You just went to have fun, but yet you won most often.

I thought it was so funny when we went to the homeschool gathering and you played some kind of trivia pursuit game and you couldn't name all of the planets but you could name all the characters on Cheers.  That was too funny.

I loved that you called Jon and  told him he had to come get you because there was a dog in the road with horns and he wouldn't move.  My city girl had never seen a goat. 

I love how you tried to help other people whenever you could.  Whatever the problem, if there was something you could do to help, you would do it.

Just being with you made me happy.  I don't know how I could miss you any more than I do now.  I know you are happy at home with our Lord but I wish I had been able to hold your hand and give you a hug one last time. It wasn't meant to be.  I don't know if I could have stood to see you in death.  God only knows how much I miss you.  You always were and still are my Angel.  I love you sweetie, Mom.

April 26, 2011
 
April 26, 2011
 
With what a deep devotedness of woe
I wept thy absence - o'er and o'er again
Thinking of thee, still thee, till thought grew pain,
And memory, like a drop that, night and day,
Falls cold and ceaseless, wore my heart away!
~Thomas Moore
April 26, 2011
 

This is the Third Anniversary of Chelsea's Death.  We miss her as much as if she just left on April 26th, 2008. 

A thousand words can't bring you back,
I know because I tried.
And neither can a million tears -
I know because I cried.
~ Sarah Ratliff